Posts : 2543
Points : 5008
Reputation : 1287
Join date : 2011-05-23
Age : 25
Location : Lubao, Pampanga
|Subject: Getting Back Together After A Break Up - Tips On Getting Together Back After Separating – Probably Thu Sep 01, 2011 2:27 pm|| |
Is it possible to reunite with each other and how? Primarily, it is very possible for both of you to reunite with each other but the way and factors differs on how. For one thing, why did the two of you separated? Is it you who was left or you left? How long have you been broken up for? Have you told him/her or did something before both of you separated? It would be hard to provide a fit answer to the question but there are some common situations among people.
First of all, remember, it takes two, no one person is totally responsible for everything that went wrong in the relationship, though that doesn't mean it's 50/50 either. There are circumstances wherein one person has more trouble than the other. You must know where you at. How much of the faults are you responsible at? Come on, be honest. If you really want a resolution, you must face and accept the consequences. Or else, why would they be with you when you haven’t change a bit?
Once you have realized your faults, the next step is to repair it. Not that big, just the circumstances wherein needed attention. That would be a win-win situation. Whatever will happen with your ex, you have become a better person. And that would be a good deal. To reunite with your ex, you must do this.
Once you already polished yourself, you can now see your ex and flaunt the new you. And it will depend on the ending. If there are no other problems between you and your ex, you can now meet up with each other.
Hopefully your ex will accept your offer and he/she didn’t, try spending time with your friends. Your ex might hear news about you from friends. It won’t be a problem to let your ex know you want to get back together from friends.
Don’t let them know you want your ex back, just let them know you are a new person. Just hang out with them and let them see the changed you. Show them who you've become, talk is cheap, let your ex see for them self the changes you've made. That is the best way to convince them that the two of you have a chance of making things work this time around.
So, adding up your luck, patience and love, you might get your ex back.