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|Subject: 1 Vital Mistake You're Making If You Crave Affection From Your Husband Wed Aug 31, 2011 2:15 pm|| |
Most married woman out there at one point wished their husbands gave them more attention and affection. It's pretty common for many women to feel as if they're not getting the love and attention that they deserve. Are you living with a man that seems more like your room mate than your husband? If this sounds like your marriage than this is an article that you must read.
First things first, you must understand that you can not control anyone's feelings, thoughts or emotions. With that said, if you're feeling unloved and it's making you feel unhappy, there is only one thing you can do. Change your mindset. If you believe that your happiness is totally dependent on other people and external situations, than you have a long road ahead of you. The difference between happy couples and unhappy couples is their mindset.
If you're depending on your husband to make you feel happy and loved, than you're most likely giving him that vibe. No man wants to feel responsible for someone else's happiness, it's just too much pressure and it's unfair.
If you still crave love and attention from your husband, you should start changing your perception. Find you're own self-love, fill that void that you feel with other things that can make you feel happy. Once you begin to feel happier about yourself as a person, you are more confident, have a higher self-esteem and before you know it your husband will be begging for love and attention from you.
When we begin to look towards other people for happiness, our confidence, our self-esteem and self-worth are most likely low. Begin changing how you feel about yourself. Fully understand that the only person that you NEED to love you more than anything is yourself. Once you have this mindset, you'll be naturally attracting other people and your husband to you. Be the woman that your husband is willing to fight and slay dragons for.
Remember, there is a big difference when it comes to needing your husband's love to wanting it. You see, when you are coming from a place of need, you begin to look needy and that will suffocate and push your man away. When you are coming from a needy mindset, you are most likely acting in a way that's the least attractive.
Tell me which wife do you think will most likely get her husbands attention. A confident, radiant, and a charismatic wife that wants her husband's attention (she'll be happy with or without his attention). Or a wife that him to hug, hold, kiss and give her the attention she needs (she may turn into a nagging and cranky wife if she doesn't get her way).