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|Subject: How To Make A Guy Love You - The Most Important Tips Wed Aug 31, 2011 1:26 am|| |
How to make a guy love you may be fairly inaccurate because what men want in a woman varies. Thus it may not have the same answer for everybody. But, speaking in terms of a serious relationship, there are some commonalities on what men want in a woman.
For one thing, although a good-looking woman may make heads turn, it does not necessarily mean that a man will be romantically attracted to her and want her immediately on the long term. Making a man love you is way beyond looks. While men want their woman to be always attractive generally, what men really want is someone who has a pleasing nature and one who knows how to take care of herself, with a pleasant personality and a genuinely good heart, and is trustworthy.
If you want to make a guy love you, be naturally caring and loving without being too smothery. Showing the guy that you remember details about him like his preferences really gets attention.
Men want a woman who is independent, not clingy nor controlling, one who will respect his space. Whether on the getting-to-know phase or steadily dating or married, never build your entire world on the guy alone.
Men don't like drama. They hate fighting. What a man wants is a woman who has a calm gentle nature, even in the midst of a misunderstanding. Respect silence and learn to back off instead of taking him on in his temper.
Men appreciate intelligence, wit and humor. It helps to always read because a man wants a woman who, though not necessarily academically intelligent, but can carry a conversation, display sensibility or maturity in thinking, as well as being someone who can make him laugh, make light of a situation.
Emotional support from his partner is also another thing that men want, a woman who will be there whether to support his interests like sports or hobbies, or to share problems with, to listen and to genuinely be behind him to support his decision, or if needed be, to brainstorm with him in making decisions.
The bottomline is, while a woman might think that being flirty, physically attractive or such is how to make a guy love you, what men want to look for is a woman of substance, who can take care of herself, and partner well, a woman who is nurturing, caring, independent, trustworthy and smart. Be all that and you have a perfect formula on how to make a guy love you.