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PostSubject: Learn How To Get A Girlfriend Back After A Breakup Effectively   Learn How To Get A Girlfriend Back After A Breakup Effectively Icon_minitimeTue Aug 30, 2011 11:39 pm

Breakups can really be painful and gut wrenching for the people undergoing them. Right now, you just want your girlfriend to be with you again. You find yourself having a hard time in school or at the office. You spend hours just thinking about her therefore losing some much needed sleep. Right now, your life is down at the dumps.

First of all, I am sad for what you are going through but you must realize that living in limbo is not a good thing. What you're experiencing right now is actually normal. Keep in mind that you only have control of your feelings and not your girlfriend. Convincing her to get back with you would only cause her to move further away from you.

How to Get a Girlfriend Back After a Break Up using the No Contact Rule

You probably know about the No Contact Rule. Basically, this means not contacting your girlfriend in any way. This means that you shouldn't send any type of message to her or even "accidentally" bump into her at a restaurant.

This is usually done because of several reasons. First of all, this space and time would allow them to contemplate how they want to live their life. Usually, a break up happens because a person wants to re-examine their life and if you keep on insisting that they be with you, the farther they will ran away. If you're unsure about how to get a girlfriend back after a break up then try the No Contact Rule first.

Second, there's a good chance that you're less confident now because of the break up. Once you contact your ex, you are making yourself look desperate which can be complete turn off.

How to Get a Girlfriend Back After a Break Up: Make Improvements

When the No Contact Rule is being applied, you should work on improving yourself. Attracting your girlfriend back is the best way to be together again instead of simply demanding her time. Hence, your goal right now is to heal from what happened with the relationship. You can do this by concentrating on your life and improving certain aspects of it. Have you failed to stay in touch with friends because of your busy relationship?

Try rebuilding the friendship. Being with these friends will let you forget your problems and enjoy life again. This way, you will have new things to look forward to while forgetting the hurt.

So go out there and live your life. Take up a class you might enjoy like martial arts or painting. This will get your mind off your girlfriend while at the same time increasing your self-esteem.

This will ensure that you only want your girlfriend instead of needing her.

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