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|Subject: The Most Basic Reasons Why Women Leave Men Tue Aug 30, 2011 11:33 pm|| |
You're one of the good guys, aren't you? So why did she decide to leave you? Maybe you thought you've been doing good so far or at least believed that the relationship is still going strong despite the faults. Here I'll tell you the shocking secret of why women leave men.
1 - You're Boring
After some time in a relationship. Most guys lose their individuality. Pretty soon, guys would start to hang out with the girlfriend in the mall rather than have the usual party and drinking night with the boys. This is actually one of the top reasons why women leave men as this kind of behaviour makes them think that you are boring. Simply put, they want someone who can bring excitement in their lives.
2 - You're Content with the Small Lot
Are you stuck in a job with no chance of getting promoted? Maybe you've gotten too fond with food and started gaining a few pounds here and there. Or maybe your bad habits are just getting too annoying for her? Men who are stuck in the mud and are not working to get themselves out are one of the top causes of why women leave men. Women are attracted to men who have clear cut ideas and are aiming to make them goals happen. You just might be able to hold a girl's interest if you reassess you life, figure out what you're doing wrong and actively fix it.
3- You Don't Make them Laugh
Although women are attracted to men with goals, they don't want someone who only thinks about reaching their ambitions. It's important that a guy still knows the meaning of having fun. Regardless of whether it's catching a simple movie or bringing her to a fancy restaurant, the point is that you will impress her with a bit of relaxation. One of the reasons why women leave men is that they don't make time for pure and simple fun. Serious men come off as robots to women which can be a big turn off. Without that spark of humanity, women will simply think of you as a lifeless person with nothing but his goals in mind. Take the time to stop and smell the flowers. After all, what's the point of having goals if you can't have fun while trying to reach them?
So now you know the top three factors why women leave men. I'm sorry if your girl left you recently. I can actually sympathize with what you are going through. However, you should use this as a hint to reflect on your life. Did she left because of any of the reasons given above? If this is the case, you might want to re-evaluate your life for the better.