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|Subject: Never Say Bye in Relationship Fri Sep 02, 2011 11:48 am|| |
Are you getting the feeling you are riding on a rocky boat? Each time when you and your partner talk, you end up feeling you never wished for this relationship? Don't worry, almost everyone feels like that one time or another. Even the most successful married people have gone through these phases, but they never say die-that's where their success lies.
It takes time to develop into a relationship, but egoism [the feeling of I and Mine] and selfishness [true love is selfless] lead to broken hearts and estranged children. Look out for warning signs like
- Communication issues
- Unresolved conflict
- Extramarital affairs
The ultimate test of relationship is to disagree but still hold hands. Real marriage is about imperfect people doing their best to nurture love and giving without expecting much in return. Don't always act like a spade which pulls things towards itself.
When we are ready to adjust,naturally our partner will also try to reconcile to our ideas.
Couples need to identify the possible causes that has led to a rift in relationship. When open communication is established couples will be free to share feelings and thoughts. Appreciation as well as being patient with faults and shortcomings makes lasting love possible. Once you take a little step towards compromise things will work out for you. Don't waste precious money on councilors.
Now if you have met your soul mate, and you are going through difficulty, this is where it is vital for you to turn the focus onto your areas that need to be healed, rather than focus on the other, because they are your mirror to come to inner and outer wholeness.
Other soul mate relationships must end, because one or both refuse to heal. The bond and the love are the deepest you will ever experience, and the personal growth and transformation will be the deepest of any relationship you have.
However, it can be a real rocky road, filled with tears and pain as you each struggle to grow into wholeness, which is the purpose of the soul mate relationship. We came into this life to grow, not stagnate. After we have healed our core issues, we can have much more of that bliss like you did in the beginning. This is why it is so important to focus on the issues your ego and expectations you are holding on to, so that you can grow, heal, and experience this bliss of Self Love, with zero ego attachment.