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|Subject: How to Propose to the Woman of Your Dreams Thu Sep 01, 2011 2:50 pm|| |
s she the one? Then what are you waiting for? Go ahead and propose! But then you could be one of those guys who do not know how to. Just the thought of it gives you a lot of chills and cold feet.
Proposing to the woman you dearly love should be a very romantic moment, and it becomes one as long you are prepared. If you are not, the following ideas may come in handy:
1. Improve your level of self-confidence.
One of the reasons why you are too scared to propose is you really do not have the guts to do it. It could be because you are too shy or you are scared of what is going to happen in the future. In truth, no one knows for sure. Marriage does not even guarantee you are going to spend the rest of your lives together. However, you need to look at the other end of the spectrum. It could also work, but you will never know it unless you take the plunge.
Use subliminal messages when you feel scared. Some of the subliminal messages you can keep in mind are
I am ready to get married.
I am willing to spend the rest of my days with this woman.
The future is going to look good for the both of us.
She deserves to be loved and I deserve to be loved by her.
2. Talk your feelings to your friends and family.
You do not have to keep your feelings all to yourself. Gain the much-needed support from your friends and family members. In fact, there is a good chance you can get a lot of pointers on how to propose from them. They can also help you out to ensure the proposal does not turn out to be a complete disaster.
3. Plan it well.
There is no foolproof plan when it comes to proposing, but you can greatly reduce the possibility of being embarrassed if you are just going to make a plan. Decide when you are going to propose and how you are going to do it. Employ help if you have to. Make sure that those in the know can keep it a secret if you want to surprise your woman. This also means you have to think about it at least a few months before the actual proposal.
4. Just be honest.
Some men would prepare their own lines and just read them. Others would quote from books, songs, and movies. There is no guideline on how you are going to say "Will you marry me?" The most important thing is you are totally honest with what you feel. Say the main reason why you want her to marry you.
5. Be ready for the answer.
Before you hand out the ring, blur out the words, or get on your knees, make sure you are ready for the answer. It can be a yes or a no. Nevertheless, by being ready you can lessen the impact it will have on you should you get rejected.