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 |  Subject: Jealousy in Relationships - Whether the Secret Behind Jealousy in Relationships  Thu Sep 01, 2011 2:48 pm | |
| Jealousy is determined an impression threatened or terrified of losing a spouse due to this fact presence of others. So not only the lose our loved ones but there are factors at the intervention of third parties kinds. The jealousy appears fear of losing a precious for us.
Jealousy in relationship has two extreme positions, which contradict each other.
1. People suppose that love is generally followed or with jealousy, if there is no jealousy means any love or love less content. So jealous sometimes identified with love.
2. There s a view, which says that love should have no jealousy completely.
The thing of jealousy:
1. Fear of losing, so there are feelings of anger toward our spouse kinds involved because we don t like to lose what we love or appreciate. All of the object of anger is our partner with others who were familiar
2. It may also arise such a way of panic, because suddenly the potential for our spouse simply leaves us to become so real.
3. Feeling ignored, just like we are not important anymore. We who made use to think being most important and foremost in our partner's life, we are most certainly suddenly occupying such positions. Because it's our partner has received substantial attention toward others.
Some results of jealousy:
1. Background of our own experience that is absolutely utilized to going out and ending with our mates, because there are other parties who interfere. Experience abandoned or betrayed at the time of dating.
2. As regards family background, one example is if we perceive our mother and father left the mother ultimately harmed because the father betrayed him.
Those who find themselves jealous regularly do a few responses:
1. This particular first thing he did during that time began to notice people feel their partner is, want to master the case that could be mastered boyfriend, husband or wife.
2. Both usual response was which he wanted to get rid of the chance from outside, namely to eliminate that other person. So he was quoted saying to a different, do not disturb my girlfriend, even though that person may not interfere with his girlfriend.
However, the result of fears he approached the man and asked not to approach her partner.
Blind jealousy is jealous that there was no objective basis. Accusing for no reason, without any evidence, without there are things that happen, but his heart so filled with fears that the boyfriend, spouse will probably be leaving. Will we conclude that such blind jealousy is absolutely not healthy.
Actually, there is usually no jealousy between husband and wife. For the reason that sense:
1. Should both of them were indeed entering the dating relationship and marriage relationships in a mature state. Resulting in these is receptive to the reasons of each one, and they could actually meet their own needs without any assistance of her partner.
2. Both should be able to keep feeling well, understand the boundaries that could and might they obey and which they are not really violated.
Thus, in such circumstances there is certainly no jealousy. So healthy and strong relationship should certainly not cause jealousy.
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